Araz Gholami

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From introversion to extroversion

From introversion to extroversion. or more precisely, the skill of communicating with people is a long road. i was thinking about how grateful i am to anyone who has tolerated my behaviors during my difficult times, and of course, i am indebted to those who have pointed out my bad behavior in the mo... Read All

Me and "Me"

Me and my hand. me and my foot. me and my brain. me and my behavior. me and my personality. me and the person in whom i live. me and the person in whom i live and who depends on me. me and the person whose deficiencies i must make up for. me and the person whose culture and civilization i must respe... Read All

Success Spammers

It took thousands of years for humans to realize that, according to the inherent belief in god, they don't need intermediaries to communicate with him, and priests are useless in this regard. i don't know how many years, perhaps thousands of years, will pass until humanity understands that if someon... Read All

You are defined by the actions you take

Life is never defined by what you know about yourself. you are defined by the actions you take. perhaps even by yourself. it's a harsh reality, but it's an inevitable one.the difference between having unfulfilled dreams and not knowing what your dreams are is stark. when you have unfulfilled dreams,... Read All

Howevers

The mind often doesn't allow you to logically understand who is right and who is wrong. for example, in a discussion, if you have a particular mindset, in the end, no matter how many arguments you make, you will still return to your mindset and your desired outcome. a good way to avoid this is to ke... Read All

Paradox of being different

It is strange to try to be different and understand that all these efforts are just to be ordinary. like people who create differences and try to eliminate them. i am confused about those who try to be different. after a while, you realize that all the trouble and effort put into being different is ... Read All

The Weakness of Managers

In my opinion, managers and executives who have a management mindset are weak individuals and can not be labeled as strategic. since they are always looking up and busy with lower-level people.maybe that's why i never tried to be a manager, except during my childhood. in fact, i never thought about ... Read All

"Why Labeling People as "Deviant from the Norm" is a Faulty Concept

I don't have a good relationship with people who label themselves as having a flaw. for example, someone who sees their large brain as a disadvantage. why is this? because we don't have a real, true definition for this issue. you can't say a small brain is good and a large brain is bad. another exam... Read All

Why you are different?

Individuality, composed of perspectives, is based on self-confidence which is also based on perspectives and experiences. social relationships also have a base on self-confidence, which is based on perspectives.if an individual faces a problem with their social relationships, they will search for th... Read All

Last station

It's comforting to be in a place where someone has thought ahead and made decisions for you, but sometimes you find yourself in a situation where no one has gone before. in these moments, you realize that you are alone and there is no one to turn to for help. it's like being at the bottom of a mount... Read All